Sorry I haven't written much this week. I am still overwhelmed by what has been happening in my life. At least part of it has been sort of resolved, my bf is back home finally. He was gone for a minute and it was a lot to deal with especially with what has been happening with my mother. Apparently around September 6 my mother was admitted to the hospital. She was having severe pain in her back and down her legs. As of the 7th she couldn't walk at all, something was pushing on her spinal cord and her legs wouldn't respond.
She is a strong woman but this has really gotten too her, she stayed in the hospital for a week and was transferred to a nursing home and has been there till Friday when they transported her to another hospital an hour away from where she lives. They have found a tumor on her spine and an abnormal growth. Right now I am not sure what any of this means. But she is telling me that she may never be able to have surgery or be strong enough with her many other problems to survive the chemotherapy and other treatments they are wanting to give her.
While my bf was gone I spent a lot of money trying to keep in contact with him that I am not sure I have funds to drop everything I am doing and go up there, however, I feel just plain awful about that. I feel she needs me and I should be there, but there is so much on my plate right now. I am trying to start my own treatments and get the liver biopsy done, as well as handle other personal matters, that keep me running across the state and the country.
One of my best friends called me yesterday and wants me to come and help him move, this is right before I am supposed to go out of town with Kerry. I have tried to talk to my dad about what is going on and how I am feeling overwhelmed and like I am drowning with everything that is happening. He just told me that I can't save the whole world and I have to do what I have to do to survive and everyone else must fend for themselves.
For those of you that know me this is a hard pill for me to swallow, however, yesterday has been very strenuous for me, because once again I felt abandoned and left alone. I have no one to lean on or confide in. I don't understand why I have to be the strong one that everyone depends upon. When will I have someone that I can lean on and depend on? I thought that I had that but every time something comes up in my life that is hard or devastating I seem to be sitting in the room all alone. What a feeling!!
So here I sit at 3:23 in the morning writing in my blog because I have no one to talk to about the things going on in my life. It seems like I have nothing and no one and I have to stand alone and face all of it by myself. Again what a feeling! It shouldn't be this way, I am in a relationship, why isn't he here for me to talk to and cry on his shoulder? Good question! And one that I don't have the answer too.
I have been sitting around all day with all sorts of thoughts going through my head, not knowing what is actually going on anywhere. The only one filling me in on my mother is her best friend and she is trying to spare my feelings knowing that I cannot be up there with my mother at this time. I have tried to be a good son.
I am so sad and frustrated this morning, I don't know which way to turn!
Please pray for me. There is so much other stuff that is going on in my life that I can't put it in here right now because I don't want to upset anyone else...
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